Four main fears that shame debt
There is a lot of guilt and shame around the idea of debt. Here are four common types of situations that people may experience guilt or shame associated with holding on to debt.
The fear # 1 scenario involves creating investments that have not brought you any return or that have made you lose money.
Fear # 2 is when you’ve invested money to get your business up and running, or in your personal relationship, and you haven’t had the results you expected.
The third group of people was massively in debt; We can dig ourselves out and now take the battle bus. They are afraid to invest, move forward and trust themselves because they don’t want to be in that position again as their previous experiences were monetarily traumatic.
It was in the fourth group of people that I founded my guilt shame. I grew up on the idea that debt is the devil and you must avoid debt at all costs.
Why Conscious Debt Is Good For You
For Harriette, there are several key aspects that create debt, guilt, and shame. What changed their relationship with debt recognized the difference between consumer debt and deliberate debt.
“Getting yourself into debt because you want that fancy vacation or nice shoes that you might not be able to buy right now is selfish, short-term, myopic debt. Then there is deliberate debt, which you will spend $ 14,000 on for 90 days working with a wealth consciousness expert. “She reminds us that the intent behind debt is the most critical factor.
Debt is NOT a four letter word
We have all been conditioned to believe that debt is a dirty word and that it carries a variety of negative connotations. What we need to be aware of is that debt is a different form of currency and abundance.
Debt can be used to create tangible and physical things for us in our personal and business endeavors.
Debt for the purpose of shortening deadlines
People are afraid to expand now and use the fear of debt as an excuse to drive away the inevitable, to slow down completely, or as an excuse not to leave their comfort zone.
When you are considering getting into debt, an important part of that process is being honest with yourself. Look at the possibilities in front of you. If you have credit available and it can help you get what you want right now, take it! Move past fear with conscious abundance and development in your back.
Getting into debt from a conscious space
Making a commitment to borrowing, investing money, or expanding your business from one conscious place will make the human, emotional, and physical experience easier. Harriette comments, “When we take on debt from this perspective, we add to the collective awareness, which is the second reason we’re all here.” As it moves through this process, it becomes divine expression through the human filter. “If you are in debt for self-improvement, self-development, self-healing, trauma healing, and business investments, you can bet your bottom dollar is exactly what you need.”
If you go into debt on this journey, your result will always be abundance. Even if you invest in coaches and you may not get the results you want, you may have got the results you want. There are always lessons to be learned when we don’t get what we want.
Instead of asking for what you want, ask for what you need
Whether you apply manifestation or the law of attraction, there is no guarantee that you will get what you want, but there is a guarantee that you will get what you need. Your journey can lead you on the path of your right and responsibility to abundance. As you move through your adventure you will find that there are lessons to be learned.
We have to learn along the way to have a human, physical, emotional experience. Sometimes our experience has to fail or not get what we want, but that experience doesn’t mean that we have suddenly lost our worth using credits to break the time down. We are always worth making money and abundance, and we are always worth using credit to collapse the timeline so we can bring in the abundance now.
Don’t copy online gurus – do your own thing
People often make the mistake of emulating online gurus, such as Instagram influencers, who promote a luxurious lifestyle. The audience realizes that you have to have this lifestyle to be happy. I have to buy the shoes or the handbag and we’ll do the super neat branding shoe or stay in a five star hotel and eat in this restaurant because that’s luck.
Be your brand of abundance
Harriette talks about her version of abundance. “What is my version of abundance? I spoke to my bank manager yesterday because we were getting a new house. I talked to him about the mortgage and he said, “Hurry up, your spending habits are insane.”
“I thought yes, but Sam, you know I want it, I’ll make money. And he wants to know if I’m playing with his mind! People around me know I’m flamboyant, but this is my version of excess. I have customers who are not even remotely interested in the chic designers, handbags and shoes because they are in a vegetable patch. “
These are customers, explains Harriette, who want four or five acres of land with no neighbors. They don’t want to hear cars or planes. They want time and space because that is their abundance. These people want a library in their home full of old books.
“I’m like, baby, whatever your boat is floating on, you have to have it, but it has to be yours. “She encourages people to pursue their true desires. Otherwise, you will follow someone else’s path and it will not lead to your happiness or satisfaction.
Where to place your guilt or shame after your expensive purchase
Here’s a good place to find yourself guilty and ashamed of yourself after you’ve bought that pair of shoes or stuck your head in an expensive hotel – who the hell shouldn’t you stand up, show up, light up and be an invitation for another Women too, to get rid of the shame and who to step into?
“Do NOT allow feelings of guilt and shame to invade your energy, and let those feelings become responsible for preventing them from getting bigger, tougher, and more glamorous. As women in the Aquarian Age, we have a responsibility to stand up, show up, glow, and fucking radiate who we are because we are the women who are going to change the world. “
Harriette explains that past patriarchy broke our spirits. “Those who rebuild our spirits are the strong, courageous women who literally come back from being burned at the stake. It was only a few generations ago that men burned women for dominating our gender. As magical damn humans, this is our time to reclaim that magic and that palla. We have a right and a responsibility to abundance. “
If you do not have your abundance, you are breaking the law. Remove your guilt and shame, move forward, and claim your abundance. Energy must flow on the path of least resistance. Because we all grew up in a world based on duality. Duality must exist for purposes like the patriarchal paradigm to flourish. These ways can only flourish with our division. When we are divided as a human race, couple, gender, species, gender, culture, and community, these factions can exist and flourish.
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